Is there a difference between loving someone and being in-love with someone?
I honestly thing so!
Is this so hard to understand?
I’m going to try and explain my perception of the differences between these two words. I believe that these two words describe the first two stages in a relationship.
The first stage is what I have heard being called “Fresh Love”. It’s when the both of you just meet and all stars are flying in the air. Being in-love with someone is not been able to breath without that person. Wanting to give this person a hug and a kiss as soon as you see them.
Desiring to buy your partner flowers. Going a whole day thinking about this person and counting down the hours until you get to see you love one again. In this stage all the physical contact between the two lovers are almost magical.
A touch awakens your senses in a way that joy overcomes your whole body.
A look into each other eyes because a journey never taken, fill with deep emotion and ardor beyond your wildest dreams.
A hug might make you feel alive again, and without a desire to let go. Because as long as the two of you are intertwined, the world makes sense again and the two of you are one entity.
A simple kiss will devour you with the red-hot fire of unadulterated passion and with the promise of an intimate interaction. For the duration of this interaction, the two bodies are fuse, turning into one body due to the flames of passion.
This is what typically happens at the beginning of every relationship.
In the other hand, when you reach the stage were you love someone, you have deep feeling for a person. All the feelings describe under the first stage are down to a minimal. But everything you do on a daily basis, you might do with your beloved on your mind. Although during this stage, other things are in your mind as well as your beloved.
Typically this is what happens after the first stage of a relationship is over. The “Fresh Love” stage!
But is it possible for a couple that one of them might enter the second stage but not the other?
If this were true then, what would it mean in that relationship?
Would this bring conflict to a relationship that once was perfect?
Please my dear blog; can you answer this love paradox?